Going Home

Hi friends, a lot has changed since my last post, and I want you to hear it from me. Soon after, I went into the hospital for two weeks trying to fight off another mystery infection. It was very difficult, but I managed to get back home last weekend. Since then, the tests have shown that the cancer treatment is not working, and my body has just been through so much. I'm very tired, but with the unflinchingly dedicated care of our dear friend Dr. Agamah, we have fought a great fight. Therefore, after lots of prayer and conversation with family, we've entered hospice care at home, as of today; this means keeping me as comfortable as possible in the time that I have left with my family.

While this is obviously difficult, I'm very at peace with this decision, and I'm ready for this next step. We were blessed with a year we didn't think we would have, and it's been a wonderful year. And we know that this isn't the end: now I'm ready to walk into a new world with a new body with my Father. I've had an incredibly blessed life with my Nancy, with my children, and so many incredible friends. I wish there was some way to adequately thank all of you and say a proper farewell for now, and this is my attempt to do that. I had a great career with incredible coworkers and colleagues, who are still dear friends. I have a church home filled with people who became family. You all have been such a blessing to me and to my family, and there is no easy way to say goodbye.

Five years ago, I received an amazing gift of a new kidney from my Uncle Tom, and D'Artagnan (the kidney) has performed steadfastly through everything, for which I am so grateful. His gift, and the incredible care of the Memorial Transplant Services team, has given me quality time with my family; even through this part of the journey, they have checked on me and cared for me. I used to donate blood and platelets, and I'm an example of the beautiful gift of organ donation and recipient of blood to keep me going. If you're able, I would encourage you to consider giving these gifts to someone else, as well.

This is a hard place to be, and I want to be here with my family, but I feel my body winding down. I'm so happy to be with my family and I don't want to leave them, but the time is coming. I can't rationally know exactly what lies ahead, but I believe with all of my being that I'll be walking with Jesus soon, without pain, able to see clearly, and waiting for all of you. I know that you'll continue to love and support my family through this time, and I really appreciate that. Thank you for being a part of my wonderful life.

I hope all of you have the peace that we have, no matter what life deals you. What a gift!